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Sadly, I'm writing this post while
wearing my dad's old sweatshirt, which means the trip to the Bahamas is over
and we are back in the frozen tundra.
Last week was nothing short of
unforgettable and we returned with tanner skin, full bellies and thankful
hearts. I have to admit that spending Thanksgiving on an island threw me off. I
had to keep reminding myself that it was thanksgiving, normally by telling
every American that walked by "Happy Thanksgiving!" It was a jam
packed trip with activities, experiences, and sites we will never forget.
Since there were so many neat
things to do and see, I decided to make a video of everything I documented. It
seemed much more efficient, and honestly it gave me a reason to use iMovie. But
before you watch the movie, here are a few things we are thankful for this Thanksgiving:
--Our amazing families that give us
never-ending support, especially the ones who made the trip to the Bahamas with
us. We love y'all more than you know (even when we don't show it)
--Our coaches and teammates that
keep us laughing everyday
--The kind and gracious Bahamian
people who let us use their gyms and schools for our games
--Coffee, because while getting up
at 6 a.m. to watch the sunrise every day was beautiful, it was also exhausting
--Paddle boards, because they
provided Wednesday afternoon's entertainment (well actually it was Malayna,
Cayla and my horrible attempts to paddle board that really got the people
--The hilarious and kind dolphin
trainers who let us meet, hang out and even kiss some of God's most beautiful
creations (and our guy Buddy, for letting us act like fools on his boat)
--Last but most certainly not
least, Teddy, our joyful, serenading tour guide/bus driver
And without further ado, I give
y'all a Badger Thanksgiving!
Below is a letter sent to the team from the coaching staff this week:
I hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving this week. When we think about what we're most grateful for, working with all of you every day, and coaching at Wisconsin is pretty high up. Of course we love our families, spouses, and kids, but it's an amazing thing in life to have a vocation. When you're lucky enough to have a job that you truly enjoy, it's special. If you're passionate about what you do, who you get to help and inspire, and how you can use your gifts and talents to make others' lives a little better, it's easy to get up in the morning.
As you're all working on your degrees and studying for finals, I hope you're fighting to create a life that makes you and those around you happy. I hope you're studying and sacrificing now, so that you can spend your days doing something that you love, being good at it, and helping people along the way. It's a privilege to work here at UW Madison. It's fun teaching a game that has opened so many doors for us, and created so many memories and stories in our lives.
Coach Schneider, Coach Dow, and I, have all enjoyed working out with you this fall, watching you push yourselves in the weight room, in conditioning, on the field and in the classroom. Even if the treadmill sprints, lunges and abs make us want to throw up, we're proud watching all of you dominate the workouts! We're looking forward to watching all of you maximize your talent this year, as you grow as young people, and learn to lead.
Thank you for taking a leap of faith and joining the Badger Softball Family. I know it's not always easy, but you're working to do something special and become something special. Right now, playing softball is your vocation, being a student-athlete is your calling. I hope it brings you a great deal of pride to tell people you're a Wisconsin student-athlete, representing the Big Ten!
I'm currently typing on the bus as
we're headed to Drake, which means one thing - sweet, sweet season is in full
This is the time of the year to
iron out our kinks as a team on the court and more importantly, to improve. I
remember during my freshman year, this was the time everything started to sink
in. This is when I started to feel like a real college athlete.
Season is in full swing and school
work starts throwing better curveballs than Sandy Koufax. Oh, plus there is a
very good chance we are traveling all weekend. Let me tell y'all, it is no
So, this week I sat down with our
freshmen, Roichelle Marble and Cayla McMorris, to see how they were handling
The other day I walked into the NJP
(our practice gym) and was facing the opposite direction of the door. All of a
sudden I heard Coach Bobbie yell "Oh, there's Trouble 1 and Trouble
2!" I didn't have to turn around to know who she was talking about.
It is an extremely rare occasion to
spot Roichelle without Cayla and vice versa. They are more attached at the hip
than Michala and Malayna, which is ironic because Michala and Malayna are actual
sisters. Needless to say, if I ever see one, I know the other is not far
behind. So far, the only place Cayla can go without Roichelle is the court.
Having torn her Achilles in the summer, Roichelle is still not released to play
yet but that hasn't stopped her from experiencing all that college has to
When I asked Roichelle how she
would sum up college as a whole so far, she replied as only Roichelle could.
"It's definitely very different than what I'm used to, especially the
walking. I've never had to walk to class before. My classes are just really
spread out across campus"
If any of you have visited UW, I'm
sure you can relate. I promise this isn't a freshman just being a freshman,
this campus is huge, y'all and unfortunately, getting to class isn't the
This university prides itself on its
curriculum and the type of students it admits. Sometimes getting a paper turned
in on time means we don't sleep one night, but hey, that's the price we pay! We
all have to learn to adjust.
Roichelle says so far the hardest
part for her has been "the classes and "how the teachers aren't as guiding.
In high school, the teacher explains what is expected. In college, you're just
in a lecture and he talks, and you have to take notes and in a few weeks you
have a paper due on what he said."
I know for a fact that I can barely
remember what I ate for breakfast most days, so you can imagine how difficult
it can be for us to recall what our professors said three weeks ago.
On a lighter note, I asked
Roichelle what the easiest part of college has been. She paused to ponder,
sighed, looked me dead in the face and said "There's really no easy part
I immediately laughed because
although I have only spent a few months with Roichelle, I still know a few very
solid attributes about her - she can nap ANYWHERE (and I mean anywhere y'all,
as a fellow napper myself, I am often quite impressed) and also, every word
that comes out of her mouth is exactly what she is thinking. It is funny,
honest, and real. And for that, we love her.
Roichelle says for now she is
focused on fully rehabbing her Achilles and is working toward a 3.0 GPA for her
freshman year. As all freshman eventually do, she has learned the "do not
I would say that means she's already
half way to that goal. Her situation is a little different due to her injury,
but for now she says her role is to "encourage everyone". If what I
have observed already continues, I have no doubt 'Trouble 1' will not only
achieve, but surpass all of her freshman year goals.
As for having to watch 'Trouble 2'
play everyday while she has to sit, Roichelle says "I'm happy for Cayla!
She's my friend and I want her to do well."
Personally, I'm very happy I get
another year to play with this girl. She is goofy and quick to give her
opinion, but she is a hard worker, a great teammate, and she is going to do
amazing things in a Badger jersey.
If any of y'all watched the
Vanderbilt game or looked at a stat sheet, you can tell Cayla McMorris is adjusting
quite well on the court. Our little diaper dandy finished with 11 points and grabbed
four rebounds in just 18 minutes.
When we sat down, she mentioned the
college style of play made her a little nervous. "The bigger girls, and
how strong they are" was the biggest difference college basketball has
shown her so far.
She already has the speed and
skills that college basketball demands, which gave her a huge advantage coming
to Madison, but it is rare for a freshman to have the strength required to
That's what the summer before our
freshman year is for. She agrees all of those early mornings will be worth it
"to win a Big Ten tournament and to get to the NCAA tournament."
But the reigning Minnesota AAA
state champion doesn't want to stop there, with dreams of earning first-team
All-Big Ten honors one day. I would have to say she is on the right track.
If there was a Ms. Popular award in
college, she would probably be on the right track for that too.
I had a hunch about what she would
say the easiest adjustment to college was. "Meeting new people, it's easy
to get to know other athletes, because we spend so much time in the same
places." Needless to say, I wasn't surprised.
If you've ever had a conversation
with Cayla, then you've probably heard her laugh, or make some joke (probably
about you). If you've ever seen her play, then you should be excited for the
future of Badger women's basketball.
Our squad returns quite a few
veterans this year, but Cayla's age hasn't proved to be the slightest of a
problem on the court. In fact, she says its "helpful because it brings maturity
to the team, and I look up to them. It means I have to step up. I know the bar
is set at a high level."
There aren't many of them, but our
freshman are more than ready and able to take on the responsibilities of
college basketball. Both of these players described being a Badger as a
blessing and I could not agree more. College is a journey, but college
basketball is a journey for the tough, the disciplined, and the talented
future. If I were y'all, I would get your season tickets now.
Catch y'all next week!
Oh and Happy Thanksgiving! Gobble
It is with a huge smile
and pure joy that I finally tell you, college basketball is officially upon us.
This is undoubtedly my favorite time of the year. Basketball players all across
the country are lacing up their new shoes, reuniting with jerseys that were in
the equipment room for far too long, putting together brand new pre-game
playlists and in our case, picking out the perfect headbands. We are breathing
the air of fresh starts and endless possibilities that only comes with a new
season. It really is a beautiful thing. Here's my first blog of the season!
For some of you, this
is the first time you'll get to see your favorite team (the Badgers) showcase
what they have been working on all summer and preseason, but for us, it is the
ultimate test of preparation. There are two layers of prep in collegiate
sports, think of them as a birthday cake.
The first and thickest
layer is the actual cake itself. It is fluffy but sturdy and without it, any
kind of celebration would simply not exist. The cake consists of conditioning,
memorizing offenses and defenses, and perfecting your individual strength and
durability to withstand the longevity that is a college basketball season.
The second layer, the
icing, contains game prep. Layer one should have hopefully already been tended
to by now. Don't worry, suicides, weekly lifts and film sessions are all great
reminders. Thankfully, it is finally time for layer two. To me, this is the
best part. I've always been an icing kind of gal.
Game prep is different
for every school and for every sport, but here's a little insight to how we
like to do it at the Dub (short for the UW, if any of y'all were a little
confused). We normally start prepping 2-3 days before game day. First, we watch
video in the film room (don't forget to bring a pen y'all).
Normally it's about a
five-minute video, highlighting the five starters and any other significant
player's from the opposing team. We look for player tendencies, favorite moves,
team offense and defense, and try to get an overall feel for what type of team
were dealing with. Next, we take it to the court.
At the beginning of
practice, we walk through the opposing team's offense and defense, and most
importantly what we plan on doing to disrupt them. Here's where the funky-looking
zones, the trick plays and the secret hand signals come in. War calls are play
calls, and defenses are changed faster than Nicole Bauman's pull up jumper (if
you haven't seen it, just know it's pretty dang quick).
The scout is a plan of
attack, and we really do need to know it like the back of our hand. Some wins
are pure luck or catching a team on a bad shooting night, but most of them are
meticulously planned and more importantly, perfectly executed. The idea is to
expose the opponent's weaknesses while at the same time highlighting your own
strengths. So if you ever notice a player repeatedly doing something really
strange on the court, it's probably part of the plan or they're just really
awkward, which is still a viable and probable option. So much of a team's
success is rooted in preparation and we cut no corners. I could still tell
y'all player tendencies, favorite moves, birthdays and family member's names
from scouts during my freshman year. Just kidding, not the whole family!
Just to be safe, we tend
to have an hour-long shoot around in the morning of game day to make sure
everyone is on the same page. It's like the review session before the exam and
it always ends with a half-court shot competition.
Remember Nicole's half
court 3-pointer that forced overtime, made ESPN SportsCenter's Top 10 and led
to our win against Green Bay last year? Yeah, we practiced that too!
After shoot around, we
head to pre-game meal! Nothing puts a smile on this team's face like game day
and free food. Actually the food doesn't even have to be free. It's pretty much
just food in general. What can I say, we like to eat y'all!
Before you know it,
it's time to lace up our favorite pair of shoes and pull on our Badger jerseys.
By the time any of y'all see us run out from the tunnel, our pony tails will be
tight, our headbands will match and our jerseys will be tucked.
But don't be fooled
friends. We have spent hours learning, dissecting and perfecting before the
first ball is dribbled on game day. College athletics has already and will
continue to teach me so many lessons than I ever thought I needed to know, but
this week I am reminded of the importance of preparation. Nothing in this life
or this game, will be given to us, and in order to take it, we must know how to
take it. Come watch us take what we have earned on Thursday against Vanderbilt
at the Kohl Center! Tipoff is at 4 p.m.
In this week's Badger Blog, head coach Yvette Healy talks about respect.
I love the T-shirts I saw all over Yankee Stadium the night of his last game. Re2pect. What a cool word and logo. Yes I love things with your number on them. But more than the number, I love the word and what it means.
Respect is such a powerful compliment. There's this deep understanding of the person, their plight and what they're all about when you use the word respect. You really have to know and value the individual and their journey, their obstacles, the adversity they deal with and their perseverance to use the word respect.
There are so many people in my life that I respect. The ones that stand out are usually the trailblazers. The ones doing things that have never been done, like my mom, being the first in her family to go beyond grade-school education, advancing to earn her high school, college and master's degrees when no one else around her was doing that.
I respect my Athletic Director at DePaul, Jean Lenti. Before being named AD, she was a life-long senior women's administrator who loved her athletes, was humble, gracious, smart and firm. She wasn't afraid to care for you, connect with you and hold you accountable all while giving you a hug. My boss now, Terry Gawlik, is one of the most successful female administrators in our conference, and on the national scene. There aren't many women at her level in athletics, and she somehow manages to be smart, kind, proactive and fashionable. She leads by empowering, not micromanaging, and that I respect.
So when I think about our Wisconsin Softball team this season, the word respect has come to mind. Who do you respect and why? What is important to you, who are your role models? Who lives their life, both personally and professionally, that inspires you? I saw Jill, our team physical therapist, finding time to coach and mentor young girls in our community through Girls on the Run. Her passion for athletics isn't just a job. She wants to help our athletes succeed. Seeing our team volunteer, after watching them train and lift, run and practice, fills us with pride.
I really don't know how strong we'll be this year, when I look at what we've lost and how we look on paper. I do know, that this group is special. We're filled with more selfless leaders like Megan Tancill, and fearless competitions like Ashley Van Zealand, and kids who are willing to put their heart into competing each and every day like Chloe Miller. I have respect for Taylor Paige Stewart working to get into med school while perfecting her curve and rise ball. Because this is a special group this will be a special year. This team is filled with trailblazers, if you just look around you, but the respect has to start with you.
Hopefully you reach out to someone in the next few days, and tell them how they've inspired you. Share how their actions and accomplishments are significant. When you see people overcome adversity, and achieve great things while being a great person, let them know. Be a storyteller.
Finally, think about yourself. Do you respect who you are right now? How do you treat yourself? How do you train, what do you eat, how do you sleep? How do you let others treat you? You get one body in this world, you need it to run, lift, compete, play sports, train, learn, and maybe someday have kids and chase them around. That's pretty profound. Respect.
In the first 17 years of Wisconsin
softball, the team advanced to the NCAA post season 3 times, with a post season
record of 1-6. Over the last two
seasons, we've advanced to the NCAA post season twice, with a 4-4 record. We have a chance to do something special this
year, and three-peat. For the first time
in program history, we could post "back-to-back-to-back" post season
appearances. Watching everyone work in
the weight room this week, and showing up to get extra and coordinate live
hitting this morning, I've never felt better about our chances to make history.
true, we've graduated a lot of talent these last two seasons. 90 percent of our home runs, and wins in the circle
have graduated. Our experience, and our
core contributors both offensively and defensively graduated in 2013 and 2014. That being said, I've never seen a more
selfless driven leadership team. You are
all a part of something very special.
This year will feel challenging, and overwhelming at times, but it's
historic. You have to grasp what an
amazing opportunity is at hand. The
reason that most teams can't sustain success, is that when things get rough,
and the stress from earning a degree from a top ten university builds, and the
weather gets cold, and expectations rise, people fold. The majority of athletes can't take a
challenge this rigorous. Most softball
players would choose an easier path.
People don't want the hardest school, the most travel, the coldest
weather, and the least legacy. You could
have chosen so many different options that would have been easier, but you
didn't. For some reason, you chose
staff knows, that path of least resistance rarely leads to true success or
happiness. Those who face adversity head
on, and challenge themselves now, over these four years, will be more equipped
to handle challenges and life for the next 40 years. This degree that you are working for will
change your life. You are sacrificing
now, to give yourself an advantage when it comes to graduate school, medical school,
the competitive job market, and life.
Competing at the BCS level in sports, in the Big Ten, will provide you
resources, connections, in-roads, and alumni that can help you get your foot in
the door, anywhere in the country. You
are learning to manage stress, challenges, and adversity with composure and
We really are so proud to coach
this group. Watching all of you this
week, we could be a 40 win team, just based on your character, work-ethic, and
drive. This is going to be a fun group
to chase history with. The odds are
stacked against us, and this could easily be a dip year. On paper, we may be a 23 win team. Yet, we believe, with your determination
these next three weeks leading into Thanksgiving, we can make strides, climb past
teams, and surprise the world along the way.
-Wisconsin head coach Yvette Healy
In this week's Badger Blog, head coach Yvette Healy talks about the upcoming season.
been a special four years for the Wisconsin Softball program, going from a 177
RPI team, to back-to-back seasons, finishing ranked
in the Top 25, and advancing to the NCAA Regional Championship game. Yet we are still far from becoming a legacy
Our greatest challenge will be overcoming the loss of 5 starters
from 2013, and four more, All-Region athletes in 2014. When you graduate that much success, and
experience, new talent must emerge within your program and from your incoming
freshmen. We will need new leaders to
step in and take starring roles in our program.
With so much youth and inexperience, we'll need a tremendous amount of
leadership, patience, discipline and hard-work.
Yet character and team-work really can overcome a majority of our
The greatest asset that Wisconsin Softball 2015 holds, is our
character. This team is filled with
truly inspirational young women who care about their teammates, and are driven
to achieve. It will take a tremendous amount of buy-in, selflessness, and
maturity to weather the storm. Are you
prepared to face the challenges of this leap year? This is the point in history where most teams
on our path experience a great slide. It
is at this point of perceived prosperity, when the times are actually toughest. Just as experience and success are
graduating, most programs are lulled into contentment and laziness. When we think we're more than we are, we fail
to truly see our team and ourselves for who we are, and frustration sets
in. With frustration comes a lack of
motivation, turmoil, and dissension.
This is a critical year in the growth of Wisconsin softball. Climbs and improvements are never linear. As we work to become a legacy, championship
program, there will always be two steps forward, and one step back. The question is, how big are the steps
forward, and how small can we make the steps back? As we grow, and climb and achieve, there will
always be minor regressions along the.
When winning outpaces recruiting, your team is bottom heavy with
inexperience, and trouble naturally arises.
The good news is, our staff truly believes we can jump this
learning curve and survive and even thrive this trap year, through
character. If this group can be the most
collaborative, hard-working, selfless, and purpose-driven team in the history
of Wisconsin Softball, we just might thrive.
It's the "Why and the what" that will count this season. Why do you play, what are you playing for,
why Wisconsin, what are you fighting for, what drives you, why now?
We are excited to enter this journey with
you. This will be your greatest test of
character as student-athletes. Your
mental toughness, confidence and composure will be challenged every day. If you focus on caring for each other,
playing for each other, being great teammates, doing things the right way,
being purpose-driven athletes, you may surprise every team in the country, and
become one of the most memorable teams in Wisconsin Softball history.